I've met someone....

25/3/24

I’ve met someone. Yes I am just as fucking surprised as you are TRUST ME. And well, writing it all out here helps me to process it all. It helps me to navigate the mess in my head, because there is mess. Its messy. Dan and I didn’t break up, we were still in love when he passed away. Talking about this is extremely scary and vulnerable because I bet most if you have already passed some kind of judgement as soon as you read those first three words right? “already?” “oh, she cant have loved Dan very much then” frankly you have no fucking clue. This shit is so fucking complicated, nuanced and messy. But as usual, I will speak MY truth and share MY perspective and as usual, I don’t need anyone to agree with me, this is MY LIFE and I am happy with the way I choose to live it. Why I am sharing is because, well, meeting someone changes everything, it means my grief journey is changing.