If you need approval from others to live how you want to live, you’ve got some shit to work on

14/11/23

At the end of the day we ALL go through some knarly shit on this human life journey. We get to decide if we’re gonna get dragged the fuck along kicking, screaming & being a victim, or if we are gonna stand up, empowered & in control, making the most of this short life. Embracing the ups & downs & using them to grow, evolve, teach others, empower & teach our kids. To push our limits & boundaries & see what we are truly capable of. When all is said and done, not much matters really but our health and happiness, what celebs are doing doesn’t fucking matter, what your cousin thinks of you that you haven’t spoken to in 20 years doesn’t fucking matter, what an old colleague you never got on with thinks of your lifestyle doesn’t fucking matter, what your own goddam parents think of you doesn’t matter – YOU are the one that lives YOUR LIFE and literally NO-ONE needs to approve of it but YOU. If you need approval from others to live how you want to live, you’ve got some shit to work on. I am here for SIMPLE, after such a fucking chaotic, downright traumatic past year (yes it has been almost a year since Dan was diagnosed and i’m feeling some kind of way about it given the fact he’s been gone almost 5 months). None of this hustle be and do it all fuck up our nervous system, health and overwhelm and stress out your mind shit. SLOW, SIMPLE, like back in the day when there wasn’t constant streaming of depressing news and literally everyone’s opinions and highlight reels in your face.